Male Dating Strategies (Continued) - Inbound Marketing for Dating

Preface

I'm listening to my intuition... 

Milad said I should go on a dating app. I've had no luck on there before even after paying for the services. Yesterday's post was about investing in building oneself / business rather than focus on "chasing girls." I personally feel that I'm not ready to put myself out there because I do not have a stable career. I don't like what I'm currently doing.

I think the date with Vi taught me that I have a negative vibe / energy. I'm not loving, I have a serious face, I'm AFC because I am not winning in any area.

If someone where to ask me what have I accomplished recently I wouldn't have anything to "brag" about. This also means that I have no pride in anything in my life. I am not proud of anything. Nobody wants to hang around a moping loser or negative person. 

I have to turn the table and strive towards success. To strive for the results that I want without mercy.

"No Mercy"

Some Notes I Gathered from Ruby Le's Interviewed with Kevin from Amped Asia. 

1. Show not tell - A picture should convey a feeling. A picture should be a convo starter.
2. Have a variety of pictures.
3. Inbound marketing vs. Outbound - Having solid pictures and a dating profile can be a good inbound tool
4. Be selective in which apps you choose to use. 
1. Coffee Meets Beagle - More Asians
2. Hinge - Interactive
3. Bumble - Women message first
4. Tinder
5. Matchmaker - Expensive for the upper class
5. Tips on approaching - be honest and direct works otherwise indirect also works. Women will always be wondering what your intentions are and why you approached her so practice talking to women and flow the convo.

Conclusion / Realization

- Be careful taking advice from friends. Challenge their ideas.

- Boost a friend with recommendations when you see fit for him. 

- Picture Project: I can help a friend out by taking photos for him when we hang out so he can use it on dating profiles.

- Focus on myself first before focusing on others. 

So in order to really put myself out there I want to be proud of me for me. I want to love myself first before I can love another person. If it so happens I do go on dates I wouldn't mind it of course either because I learn a lot from gaining experience.