Women
Appearance - Let's start with women first and what society values in a women. Society values outer looks in a women first and foremost. She can get more job opportunities and dating prospects.
With social media these days women can display themselves to attract potential suitors. We all see women on instagram gaining likes and followers with ease no matter if she's in cosplay or working out. Face, boot, skin, boobs all are thirst traps women use to lure in followers, likes, and attention. Her social value is her outward appearance.
Independence (not as a big factor)- Now a days we have women empowering women and more movies of strong, independent female characters.
Men
Looks - Now with men we are also favored by our looks (race can determine our looks too). But what if we are not attractive or the favorable race? We can invest time to body building / or athletics: martial arts or sports. We can go shopping and buy good looking new clothes.
BL - But there's more to it than looks men are respected or not through the way they carry themselves. BL includes confidence, vibe, posture, and tone. Looks and BL can go hand in hand if men put some time into the gym to bodybuild. Now this can be layer upon layer because other factors play into BL like who men surround themselves with. If he is surrounded by confident guys than he will also be confident.
Tribe - Who your friends are or who you surround yourself with. Birds of the feather flock together. Do your friends inspire, motivate, or challenge you? Do they have similar ambitions or goals? Are they independent thinkers? Do they want to talk about business or gossip?
Status - Do other men respect me? Do other women desire me? Am I in a position of power? How much influence do I have on people? What is my occupation? Am I happy with my work?
Money and Skills - Affects the way I look and my BL because money can provide these things. What skills can men bring to the market place to earn more?
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