I sure love to feel important... Sang my heart out and this will be the song that the teacher recommends me doing for the upcoming class concert. Easy decision.
Agreed to continue this quest with wingman to do daygame at 1pm. He had errands and parking was tough so we started exactly on 3 o clock. Only 1 hour to do game before my Improv class at 4.
While waiting I kept kinda busy by doing some errands but looking back I should have called him earlier to see what's up because time was dragging along and I don't know whether I should go game without him or wait for him.
Chody self said wait for him and keep busy and so I did just that. Next time I'll just game and not make excuses and next time I'll just contact him right away. I know he wanted me to be at least approaching cause he called and asked if I did anything. I told him I was talking to a dude, really was though but I think I chose the safe route...
1. Forgot that right before we scheduled to meet up I was on the phone again with my wingman. He said I didn't sound pump and was right because I've been waiting for him! (NEVER WAIT). Cute girl passed by and I told him I'm going to Go (Yay, recovered from yesterday!). Put him on speakers, told him to not make a sound and I go.
"Hey you're cute..." She turns and smile before entering the door. She was walking quite fast. Caught up ask "Where are you going? I've never been in this building before show me around." She says she needs to pick up a check and she has class. I ask for phone number on the spot while she keeps walking up the stairs. She turns around and said sorry.
-Later saw her talking to a friend in the cafeteria. She lied about having class.
I kept at it and introduced myself and she exchanged hers. "I'll see you around I said with a smile." Back to the phone I was crackling + had a boost of energy. Wingman said I was being too submissive because I asked if I can talked to her - I replied that I didn't remember saying that. Guess I was too into the moment. Another cute girl but too petite walks by and while talking on the phone I just make a comment on how she was running late. She said she's picking up a check just like the other girl. Hmmm I wonder what check?
These contagious approaches just merely breaks the ice for future interactions.
-Decided to opt out of an older blondie while waiting for wingman to finish his approach. He # closed.
2. Saw a white girl sitting by herself in the corner. Since the campus was kind of dead I go with ease (been there before when it's all dead and you finally find a target but you BB out, but not this time!). Got closer, was drawn to her blue eyes. Noticed she was a classmate.
-Time up. Wingman came back with another number, Asian. Went to class together and he got to see and participate within the improves :)
Went indirect by asking if she was in my class. Asked about assignments. Joke how I should have sat next to her because she's so smart and on top of things. Closer glance, her teeth were crooked... We talked about class. Glad I threw in topic about sex addiction therapist when she said she wanted to become an addiction therapist. Just trying to get the juices flowing.
She talked most of the time - I guess she really wanted someone to talk to the whole day. She allured that she had a bf so I eased off by just getting her facebook cleverly when we were talking about networking.
3. Walking to car after the very last class. Was really butthurt seeing the hot girl that I hit on from class avoid me by sitting elsewhere and during class just chatting away with random guy.
Realize how butthurt I am over something stupid because she had rejected me before (bf) and it made me stronger. I told myself patience is a virtue. If I happen to see her again than good if not than so be it. Stop being clingy to people you barely even know! I told myself.
To the car notice girl behind me. She walks by I see her backpack. "Crazy back pack there" (some cartoon character, yellow dog from cartoonetwork. Talked about back pack and then cartoons. Made a deep remark of there's a kid in everyone of us to calibrate when she said I guess I'm still a kid because I watch cartoons.
Introduction. She ask about class and major. Heading different way I ejected reminding myself to not be clingy. To not always ask for something from an approach such as fb or #. Was butthurt remmeber? Patience is a virtue. Ended up walking to my car which was parked right next to hers lol. I kinda sensed that she thought I was going to ask for her number but I didn't so that was an interesting experience.
Didn't number close. Patience is a virtue. There are plenty of girls out there. Abundance... Got home and got a silly feeling that I should have gotten this dark hair girl's number because who knows what this interaction could turn into...
Observations
- Balance patience with aggressiveness. Aggressiveness can turn into neediness.
- Some girls who are alone will not freely give out their number. They are tied to group mentality. To win this one, must win the group + approach group.
- New experiences like having a friend/wingman go to improv class with you makes the day awesome.
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