2 Approaches / +1 facebook close, + 1 # close
1. After class sat down at the stairs chilling until next class. Turned over left side and spotted a cute girl. Thought she was a freshman but found out she was a junior. She had slight make up and looked really adorable and cute.
My mind kept saying go tell her, "What's up girlfriend?" About 2-3x before I made my body move. Just went over spotted some dudes smoking above and could be watching but I ignored. It was only me and her in my world.
Said the line and she looked puzzled. Said jk! and we introduced each other. Convo was light and bit dull. Talked about the weekend off and random stuff that came to my head lol. Like what did you buy? Where does your mother buy food?
It was morning after all and I didn't have that much energy. She was cool answering all my random questions and smiling. She called over a friend. I didn't want any awkwardness so I asked who's Nick?
Said hi to Nick and the two just carried off on their convo about black friday. Nick made good eye contact between us two. One time I asked her why she returned the xbox and she didn't make eye contact with me and explained. I sort of teased her but it didn't go anywhere when said it's a man thing you wouldn't know. She was playful talking about man things like did you get a man thong? Whitie tighties?
Pretty cool and casual girl but she has a bf. Didn't know why when I left after getting her fb since she has a bf that I told her how "I'm a noobie at relationships." She asks why I said "I never had a gf." Left on a bad note!
2. After class again walked by a cute girl. I let her past. Then I thought twice and looked back. My brain was telling me go approach! You have to approach every girl you are attracted to! I felt a rush and excited and also somewhat worried that I have to listen to this body tell me to approach every single girl! Something I'm not use to! But I'm loving this spontaneity!
Chased her to parking lot. Shouted about 5 feet away, "Hey adorable." She turns around and stops. I went up and I think just ask for her number right away. She said I have a bf. I said "You can have 2 bf" jokingly and then ended up saying jk again... Laughing at my own terrible jokes lol or more like nervous laughter. She stood awhile like she was hooked. Ask for my name asked if I was Chinese. Ask what class I was. She looked like a graduate student but she was really just a sophmore who barely knows English.
We would agree to teach each other languages. +1 solid number because there was a reason for her to see me again.
Observations/Summary
- Girls digging my swag (confident, self-assured self) - I just know it when they make eye contact while I'm singing my heart out. Another girl was interested who asked me if I was going to audition for next semester.
- Even waking up to pee is spontaneity at work! Just blurted out what I wanted to say in class. "Hey do you want me to record you since I missed up last time?"
- Mind suggests approaching instead of retreating.
- Opt out on 2-3 more random approaches
- Currently listening to Tony Robbin's "Live Life with Passion" audios
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