Improv Body Language Project - Approach 3 set or people and do something weird. No spoken language only BL only. Some examples: a person comes into a group having a convo and nods head listening to everyone. Or a person enters convo and goes to sleep. Another example, a girl in elevator keeps looking up the ceiling facing the wall confusing the people.
Mine was about hitting on girls in on campus using only my BL. Failed so I changed it to following girls and be flirtatious and friendly instead without making a word.
What I learn:
- I took speaking for granted. It's so difficult to not come off as weird and meet people without any verbal game / or speech for that matter.
- Deeply now understand people's social boundaries and how people are unlikely to chat you up when you invade their boundary.
- Deeply understand the "awkward silence"
- Deeply understand that out of the norm situations adds humor to the day
- People are easy to approach as long as you make small talk or say anything.
No fear in doing the project. Felt lazy not approaching because I was too focus on my project. Can't switch my focus from project to approach cute girl. Result = anger. Consequence = Dove into pick up material and going to put some action tonight.
Missed chances to approach same girl hit on whom is with her friend. Missed girl whom approached before at cafeteria because too caught up on project.
Edit: I'm back from the bar (McF). As usual. Lots of guys who don't know how to dance. Music always loud (highly recommend ear plugs). Only me and wing are the most intelligent ones who have ear plugs. Ratio sucks. Most girls are not even HB6's.
Wingman got cockblocked by an AFC black guy. Wing met lots of his school friends. Wing also danced with a girl who had a bf.
I was nervous as hell to try approaching girls because I'm afraid there will always be a guy there or that she's taken but to my surprise I've seen particular girls dancing with various dudes or leaving the bar not with the dude. Slutty...
I failed miserably. Low energy. Didn't approach. Leave this shit on the web I don't want to be a pussy anymore.
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