Him - realize he suffers from guilt and comparison with his friend (who is better) than him in physical activities. This guilt and rumination causes him to not take action. There is no way he can improve himself if he focuses on someone else instead of his own progress - this stifle his creativity. Jealously also causes suffering
I see myself in him so it felt like I was speaking to myself.
I enjoyed the flow in convo as it got deep (he doesn't have friends who like to talk about self-development)
I can see that he wants to "level up" and no longer be a loser.
We have in common that we study dating advice
I admire his watch that says he has 59 yrs left to live his life
I also learn about myself when talking to him: the realizations above / things we agreed upon / importance of networking / shared experiences as a man (losing virginity)
He shared to me a brainstorming technique he calls it self-mentoring where you write down the topic you're focusing on and ways you can solve it with bullet points
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Was 3 hours but it was cool, educational, better than what I had expected or not expected. Made me gain experience in setting up meetups/"dates"
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